So what are some of your thoughts on being married a long time and the wifes sex drive slowly dimishing?  I am horny 24/7, she used to be but not anymore.  I have kept myself in good shape, always satisfy her sexually with orgasms and foreplay but as we grow older she doesn’t want it much any more, I mean come on we are only 39.  We use to have sex 4 or 5 times a week anywhere and anytime, help me out here……Any ideas, comments, etc……